Finding your voice is not just done in writing, although that's where we tend to hear about it most. This term simply refers to who you are, coming through in your written, verbal and non-verbal communications with others. Whether you are compassionate, have a sense of humor, are straight forward and authentic, are examples of qualities that can be expressed in your voice. In my opinion, your voice is the real deal.
Sometimes -- often without meaning to -- we copy someone else and it's not our voice, but theirs that comes across. I had personal experience with this not long ago. I'm known for sending out a lot of handwritten cards, using just about any occasion as an excuse! (I've found a great close-second source of cards that are virtually "handwritten"; here's my link to check it out and send someone a sample card on me:www.NewClientsByDesignCards.com).
A little while back I had sent out a handwritten card to acknowledge someone who had registered for one of my live events. The recipient, who has known me for a number of years, acknowledged the card but said that it didn't "sound like me." (thank you, Penny:>) Although it definitely was me that wrote the card, I later realized that somewhere along the line I had picked up the "voice" of someone else that I admire and respect. She is very authentic in her way -- but I am not her and that obviously came across.
One of the conundrums (I just love that word!) I see with people is that as they seek out and learn new ways to market, communicate and attract new clients, they feel that by using these new tools, they aren't being themselves. As with anything, if you're not comfortable with something, others are going to pick up on it.
So, what can you to do when you want to push yourself out of your comfort zone and implement new strategies and principles -- but still retain the authentic you? I believe that while you need to let go of the old in order to make room for the new, you also need to feel comfortable that you are maintaining what makes you the unique person that people around you know, like and trust.
1. Make sure that you choose the right person and their techniques to copycat. As the saying goes, "it's okay to copycat as long as you're copying the right cat!" In other words, be sure to take the time to find out all you can about a person, their company and the products you are considering purchasing. Or, get referrals from people you like and respect, who have used this person's coaching or products in the past. Then, trust your gut. If you can't relate to someone, no matter how well their techniques might work for others, they aren't going to work for you. I recommend you take any free teleclasses they might be offering, watch videos or listen to their audio messages on their website. Generally study who they are and what they stand for, to determine if they'll be a good fit for you.
2. Ensure that you know the difference between being reluctant to pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, versus learning new things that are necessary for your success. I believe that if you are comfortable that the person teaching you is using sound and solid principles and are experts in their field, there is always a way to take that information and make it your own. With some exceptions (where the efficacy of something working requires you to repeat it verbatim), take the principles or bullet points of a new technique and put them into your own words. Another great reason for this, is so that you're not plagiarizing someone else's work.
3. If you always keep the best interests of the person with whom you're communicating in mind, you will be mindful to speak with them and not at them. Our prospects have never been as well informed and savvy as they are today. I've written about this in the past, but it bears repeating. If you are transparent and authentic in your dealings with people, you do not need to use thinly-veiled "sales techniques" on them. Marketing is something you do with your public, not to them. Rather than regarding prospects as walking wallets, observe the difference when you truly engage them and just be yourself. Remember, in most cases, it is you that they buy, long before purchasing your products and services.
Your Assignment:
1. In an sincere effort to reach out and connect with your prospects, clients or colleagues, make it a point to send out 2 short notes or cards, every day next week. I'm talking snail mail here, not e-cards or emails. With so much being done by the Internet, people really take notice when you take the time to send them a note in the mail. Perhaps you want to congratulate them on something in their business or personal life, or send some encouraging words their way. If you want to combine the best of high-tech with high-touch, click here to send a fre*e card, my treat. I guarantee you -- you'll be hooked!
2. Make it a point this week, to search out a speaker, mentor, writer, whose work you admire and research what they have to offer. If you're not growing in your business, you're dying. Just as you'd be committed to learning more about your craft or profession, make it a priority to expand your horizons mentally, spiritually, or different ways to grow your business. Hop on a free teleclass or sign up for someone's newsletter or any fre*e reports that they may be offering. It's a great way to break out of a rut and look at new and creative ways of doing life and business.
3. Reach out by making a "just checking in" call to someone you've been meaning to approach or follow up with. I'm constantly surprised how when I catch up with an old acquaintance, the Universe sets the wheels in motion for us to work together or do something that comes up at that very moment in time. And then I think, gosh, why didn't I make that call sooner -- only to realize that this was the absolute perfect time!
Now that you're ready to use your unique voice to build your business,don't forget that you'll need really compelling marketing to communicate your message authentically and effectively. If you are tired of trying bits and pieces of various programs that just don't seem to fit together or work for you, then it's time to take action and invest in a step-by-stepBlueprint that will cut months, if not years, off your client attraction program. The New Clients By Design Blueprint(TM) is your ultimate system that contains only the steps that work and that build on each other. No fluff, no new-fangled ideas that sound good but in reality, don't work or only work for a few. This system will position you head and shoulders above the competition in your niche, and allow you to play bigger, faster. It will teach you how setup the systems once, that will have you attracting all the ideal clients you need naturally and comfortably, forever. This is the ultimate system all in one place, that you can implement quickly, easily and without spending a fortune. Everything you need -- the tools, scripts, templates, have all been designed with efficiency but simplicity, in mind. You can get it at New Clients By Design.com.
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